Friday, June 12, 2009

Sounds like Fun!

One of my favorite annual activities is attending the Houston Symphony's free summer concerts, called "Sounds like Fun!" We try to get their early so that the kids can participate in the musical instrument "petting zoo." Tyler enjoyed showing off his trombone skills- playing Darth Vader's march and getting a round of applause from everyone in line. This year, we went to a beautiful Presbyterian church for the concert, instead one of the local high schools. The acoustics were incredible! Since there was a smaller crowd, our kids were able to interact with the conductor more. I loved being three rows away from the musicians. There is no better listening experience than sitting in an intimate atmosphere- engaging your eyes, your ears, even your heart which seemed to keep time with the music. This year, they played one of my favorite pieces of music- Stravinsky's Firebird Suite. On the way home, we tried listening to it in the car. All of the kids agreed that it didn't sound anything like what they had experienced live.

On another note, I have to say that my little "field-trip" was so enjoyable for another reason. I think this is the first year that I was able to take all four of my kids out in public without suffering from any form of anxiety. Not only were they perfectly behaved in the concert, but I also knew that all four of them- Randy included- would stay with me and not wander away at the smallest distraction. Tyler and Emily are old enough to be a huge help to me. And- bonus- I didn't have to haul a diaper bag or worry about any potty accidents! In previous years, we would have to do trips like this on weekends or when Dad had time off. Now, I can picture myself taking all the kids to our favorite museums, movies, maybe even- gasp- the beach on my own. Actually, Daddy was sad he didn't go to the concert with us, so maybe we'll wait for him anyway.

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Tagged- Top 8 (in no particular order)

My 8 Favorite TV Shows
1- The Office
2- Lost
3- Lie to Me
4- Fringe
5- Ace of Cakes
6- Biggest Loser
7- Mythbusters
8- Jon and Kate Plus 8 (although I might quit watching.  This season depresses me.)

8 Things I did Yesterday
1-Laundry
2- Worked on Scout Day Camp plans
3- Worried
4- Fixed dinner
5- Showered
6- Helped with homework
7- Discussed future with my husband
8- Crochet

8 Favorite Restaurants
1- Papasito's
2- Melting Pot
3- Taco Grill
4- Chick Fil A
5- Alamo Drafthouse 
6- Pei Wei
7- That good Middle East place
8- Anywhere that serves good sushi

8 Things I'm Looking Forward to
1- Closure
2- Scout Day Camp to be over
3- Starting college courses
4- A mission with my husband
5- Weekends
6- New Zoe Keatting album
7- Being a grandmother
8- Bedtime

8 Things on my Wish List
1- Happy, independent children
2- A trip to Belgium
3- A cure for autism
4- A clean house
5- Cute shoes that fit my freakishly large feet
6- An eternal family
7- A news source that is truly fair and balanced
8- A reunion with my mission companions

Now I tag 8 people
1- Jason
2- Suuuuuuuuuuuusan
3- Heather
4- Brooke
5- Kim (I know she doesn't blog yet, but I'm hoping she will.)
6- Melanie
7- Robert
8- Tara

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

The Big Announcement

After much prayer and contemplation, Jason and I have decided that our family is moving to Singapore

 Next month.  

No, really.  I'm not joking.  

Can't stop to blog. . . I've got packing to do.  But stay tuned.  This blog should get pretty interesting in a couple of months.

Ms. Four-Eyes

At her five-year-old check-up, Lucy couldn't read any of the letters off of the eye-chart until she was standing right in front of it.  Sure enough, Lucy needed glasses.  Now the only Welker without them is Randy.  He actually feels left out!

It was fun to take Lucy to the mall to pick out her new frames.  She zeroed right in on a pair of pale pink ones.  She was convinced they were the ones until she saw another pair of pink.  Decisions, decisions.  She was able to decide pretty quickly and now loves them.  She's received plenty of  admiration for them and I think she likes the attention.  

Sunday, May 24, 2009

Sisters!

In my life, I have been blessed with sisters.  Lots of them.  There are my sisters by birth, my sisters by marriage and my sisters by callings.  All of them are sisters from God.
Since my dad was in the military, my family moved a lot while I was growing up.  Kim, just a couple of years younger than me, was a great source of comfort when moving to all those new places.  We would enter Primary together, and could hang out when we didn't know anyone else in the neighborhood.  Although I am the oldest, Kim has been my pioneer- helping me cope with a son diagnosed with autism.  She is far more mature and responsible than me and I love her very much.  Susan is a lot younger than I am, but the coolest sister on earth.  She loved me unconditionally when I was a geeky, awkward teenager and still does, now that I am a geeky, awkward adult.  She is always cheerful and up-beat.  Although she is and will always be about 10 years old in my mind, she has grown to be an amazing mother and wife and I love her too!My brothers married fantastic women- far better than they deserve, in my opinion.  I love hanging with them whenever I get the opportunity- shopping, eating, playing games, laughing.  They are each so talented and amazing.  I wish that I was closer geographically so that I could be closer to them.  I hope my brothers know how blessed they are and that their wives remind them of that fact often. 

I don't have a picture of my husband's sister, but I am grateful for Lori as well.  She is conquering many difficulties and I admire her for her persistence and endurance.  You're doing great, Lori.  Keep it up!!!
While in Utah, I was able to reconnect with a few more of my "sisters"- companions from my mission.  I don't think it's an accident that we call each other "Sister" while we serve together.  The relationship I formed with my companions is definitely more than friendship.  These amazing women shared one of the most remarkable chapters of my life with me.  Not only did I learn so much from them, but I had a blast at the same time.  I was only able to see Sis. Grant, Sis. Staples and Sis. Parks.  (It's still so weird to think of your first names!)  It made me miss all of the other sisters I knew but haven't been able to see even more- Sis. Owens, Sis. Wengreen, Sis. Matthews . . .   It was amazing how we were able to pick up our friendships even after years of being apart.  I marvel at the struggles they've endured and the remarkable wives, mothers and women that they are now.  
My mom recently gave me a box with all the letters I'd written home while in Alabama.  After visiting with these sisters, I loved re-reading what I had written.  In one letter, I wrote, "I didn't come out here to find a best friend.  But I have.  I will love Sis. Parks forever."  And I do.  

I'm so thankful for all of my sisters.

Saturday, April 4, 2009

Trip to Utah

Jason and I got to run away to Salt Lake City, Utah in early April.  The excuse was to attend Jason's mission reunion.  But we really just wanted to get away for a few days.  We spent time touring church sites downtown, eating good food and reconnecting with friends.  We were able to get tickets to the Saturday morning session of General Conference.  It was worth waiting in the cold and snow to sit with fellow Saints to hear the words from our prophet and leaders.  My favorite talk from that session was Sis. Lifferth's talk on "Respect and Reverence."  But the best part was standing for the intermediate hymn and singing with thousands of Latter-day Saints and the Mormon Tabernacle Choir.  That's one experience you can't have sitting in your living room and watching Conference by satellite.  

It was so amazing to go to Jason's mission reunion.  Although I didn't know any of them, I loved meeting these men and women who shared that time of life with my husband.  Pres. Barrett is an amazing person and it was wonderful to finally meet him and his wife.  

All in all, a great trip.  I have to say a super thanks to my sister- Suuuuuuuuuuuusan, her awesome hubby- Dave and cutie-patootie daughter- Caroline, for watching my home, dog and kids while we were gone.  It was such fun having them here.  You guys are the bestest!

Friday, April 3, 2009

Baby No More

My baby is five years old!!! How did that happen?
Lucy's party was a complete success, at least in her eyes. And here's what we did right . . .

#1- I read a rule somewhere that the number of guests at a party should equal the age of the birthday child. Lucy thought of five friends she wanted to come and they were all able to make it.  That was just the right amount.
#2- One of those guests was Lucy's sister. Emily is 11 and was such a huge help to me. She was so good at choralling wandering kids and keeping them entertained.  It was almost as fun to watch Emily act as a surrogate mommy as it was to watch the birthday girl. (Notice a head behind her.  She's managing to pose for a picture and restrain a little girl at the same time.  What talent!)
#3- We splurged on the party place. Lucy wanted to go to Build-A-Bear. I felt this was justified because it was her first party, and we don't do parties for our kids every year. While I choked about the amount of money we forked over, I didn't have much to prepare for or recover from the festivities.  And my house and ear-drums stayed intact.  That's worth any price in my book.
#4- We held her party on a Tuesday night, which I don't necessarily recommend, but it turned out great.  The mall and Build-A-Bear were empty and most importantly, her cousin could come.  It was hard for Jason to leave work early, and I'm very glad he made that sacrifice.
#5- It was a girl only party.  Nothing wrong with boys.  But those girls loved being girls.  I enjoyed it because I was able to focus attention on our princess, instead of hearing "I'm bored" from her brother.  Not a very "family-together" activity, but it was very peaceful.  Her brothers gave her gifts on her actual birthday and she enjoyed having two special days.
It was fun to watch the girls pick out new stuffed friends. I think everyone had a good time. I know I did. Lucy has carried her new rabbit, Cinnamon, every where- getting her dressed in the morning and putting on her PJ's at night.
Maybe it's my imagination, but Lucy has grown up so much since her birthday.  She sleeps in her room by herself.  She has been getting dressed AND putting her clothes away (my only child who does!)  She cheerfully helps me when I ask for help.  I've been around the block a few times and I know this isn't going to last forever.  While I mourn the loss of my last baby, I'm enjoying this Big Girl who has come in her place.